After changing majors seven (yes, seven) times, my dad sat me down and started asking some pointed questions.
Dad: “Why have you gone through every engineering program the school offers?”
Me: “Well, there’s a demand for women in engineering, and I’d make good money?”
Dad: “Do you like engineering?”
Me: “Not really, but I want to make a lot of money?” (Yes, at 19/20, I was seriously interested in making money.)
Dad: “But what is it you really love to do?”
Me: [stumped]
Dad: “Did you really like writing in high school? You seemed to enjoy writing for the newspaper?”
Me: [light bulb starting to flicker]
Dad: “I can’t tell you what to be, but I can tell you that if you’re doing something you love, success and financial security usually follow. When you’re doing something you’re good at and enjoy, people can see that and respond to it.”
Me: [My dad's brilliant.]
In our society driven by pragmatism, such food for thought strikes as somewhat hard to ruminate.sometimes its really important to slow down, ask ourselves, what do we enjoy doing? the answer i realised lies in finding that key balance between pragmatism and passion.
okay back to studying for SATs. ( :

















